大学的交际

明天正式开始我的大学（学院）生活了

看了看时间表脚都软了

将会有一段时间很忙

早就应该做好心理准备的嘛。

还是很担心交际问题

害怕交不着朋友

大学里人际关系占很重要的一环

-生病或意外发生不怕错过当天课程的内容

-不用烦恼组队问题

-容易获得更多课内课外和学校的资讯

-压力都这么大了，没朋友在身边倾诉哪行？

我有一位朋友曾说过

“一位真心的朋友不会介意你会不会讲话”

我到现在都还不是很认同

在交朋友的法则里永远存在着“需善言语”

不需要很幽默

至少要懂得在适当时间讲适当的话

不然没人会愿意进一步了解你（除非你样子够特出）

朋友都交不到了

真心的朋友？

戏剧里发生的剧情永远永远只能当参考

不要期待能像男女主角般的幸运。

题外话：只有我的dear才不觉得我的人闷。xDD

这些都只是我的经验

请大家不要轻易被动摇

做回自己才是最重要。

还没开始上课就给自己制造这么多烦恼了

顺其自然吧

也许我能像戏剧中的男主角般？

小说

昨天去了pavilion的“times”书局

看到亦舒的小说系列

见钱包有点钱

我买了他（应该是）最新的小说

《天堂一样》

读了百页

超赞的！

亦舒的《天秤座女孩》是我人生第一本完全读完的小说

没记错当时我好像还是初二呢

读完了也不过一知半解

只记得结局很悲。

亦舒的语法和文笔能力相当高

以前的我虽看不懂却很喜欢

不过看完了《天秤座女孩》后

实在看不下他其他的作品

不过《天堂一样》我倒是看得明白

华文造诣提高了？哈

以前很喜欢市川托司的恋爱小说

其中最喜欢的就是《恋爱写真》

后来还多买了几本他的作品

《如果整个世界都下雨》，《等待，是为了和你相遇》，《现在，很想见你》……

当时他的书在书局里一天比一天少

慢慢地消失了

还真有点失望。

期间我还读过数作者的小说

都是些爱情的东东

故事缺了点真实感

文法相普。

昨天还买了许友彬的书

《鹅卵石》

还没开始看呢

第一次买他的书

不知如何？

down?

there was something on my mind

why i cant talk so well just like the other?

i phone my dear yesterday night

she seems so upset

and started has some negative mind

i'd try my best to console her

but you know what

i'm not good in talking

same thing in consoling

hmmm...

hope she will be ok soon~

life changed

since the trip to singapore, my life changed lot.

i'd start my college last week

general foundation in UCTI, that near bukit jalil

i'm there with no friend accompanying

i dont usually do big thing alone

this may the turning point of my life.

the orientation day already started a couple day

lucky i've made a friend at there otherwise i would be helpless

but actually it didnt help much

i still being quiet all the moment

due to i'm a speechless guy.

oh ya

the friend's named lee sook li

we know each other coincidently we didnt receive our student id card too

somemore she is quite a talkative girl.

as you can see, my english's standard wasnt that good

i felt so much pressure just within a few days!

and through carrying the ice breaker

i found out there are so many mature and talented students

i'm not here to lose

i'm going to overcome all these difficulty!

one more thing

i'm in a relationship

it's kinda suprising huh

both of us had share so much memorable scene

these may store in depth of my heart

i felt kinda sorry 'cause i didnt write anything that could melt her's heart here

all i can say is

dear, i love you~ ^^

SPM result

yeah

this is the day...

i'm quite satisfied my SPM result

although it turn not so well

here the list:

BM - D
BI - D
PM - C+
SJ - FAIL
MT - A
SC - A+
AK - B
EA - FAIL
BC - B+

cool huh?

i kinda likes this result

at least this is what i wish from the start

unless my malay and english

never thought i could make it so bad

I'M SO DEAD!

fine~~~

Singapore's trip: Paramore live in Singapore

it's been long time i never use english(or i should say broken english?) for publishing any post

yeah because i love chinese and i don't want my chinese to get any poorer

but how did you think? my chinese never get better and so worst

nah~~ forget it.

So, i had an INCREDIBLE night on 7th march

it was my one and only idol -- Paramore's concert.

before the show~ i'm on my Singapore's trip

i'm so excited

as you can see i'm a Malaysian and i really never been there for years!

all i know is nothing and lead by my dear aunt and my bunch of new friends.

the first day there i'm just stay in aunty leng leng house and rest of them going out to the night club

oh ya~ my aunt daughter(jia hui) and also aunty leng leng's daughter(pei yan) staying at the home~

i'm the only boy? you're wrong~

pei yan almost is the hormone imbalance one

loves boy stuff and games

i don't know her at first but we made friend with a war game~ cool huh~ o.0

after that we chat for a night

and i knew hers family is something just like mine

pity her~ >.<

of course i'm being so nice to her~

tell you~ she's cute~

but only 11~

pity me~ xD

the next day we are all going to sentosa for the underwater world fish watching~

there are so many giant-fish but the most excited is the crew! every tourist wants to take picture with the diver~ so much funny~ xD

for me i kinda love this -->


craps~ unfortunately i cant capture the near one because my phone was out og memory~ ==

and this one cute too~ it looks like some kind of poisonous snakes but it's an eel~ named golden eel~



next stop

the beach.

i love beach 'cause i cant go to the beach so easily in kl

we will have to go kuantan or pulao redang for a better sand and ocean~


i will taste the sea water everytime i went to beach

crazy huh~ i know sea may not so clean but i don't mind it~

i love sea~ ^^

after taking some picture at the seaside

pei yan ask me " let's play sand war!"

she wad so serious but i don't even know tat!

after few minute~ i'm sandman

she too! muahaha!


we run through the sand and play

it was so much fun

i hope i can do this with my beloved one~ xP

my gosh why my eye looking so weird? T^T

i'm going to pass through all the following event till

the concert of PARAMORE!!!!

i'm taking taxi to there

from geylang 35 to the singapore indoor stadium only cost me $4.8

it was so much cheaper than i expect!

there was a long long queue

i'm just wondering is it the queue for the north entrance

then i just ask the guy in front of me~

he use a very very standard chinese to answer me

no ideas, he is also queue for north entrance but not sure it is it~

after a moment the guy use his cell to call someone

i think is his friend

what i suprise is he is also using a totally standard english!

nah~ i shouldn't feel suprise about it

this is singapore and the guy is singaporean

i must study hard! YEAH! ><

a couple time passed

the guy who standing in front of me suddenly left with friend and also a message

"hey, wrong queue."

i start guessing is this the queue for other purpose?

then i ask someone behind me this time

it's a malay couple

they too same situation with me

we started a conversation and i'm so proud of myself

i can talk english! xD

i think i cant wait here just like this

i have to do something!

i went to the box office for some information

she told me north entrance is follow up on the escalator

i went back to those couple and we going up there together.

due to i'm quite 'paiseh'

i walk in without a bye bye.

there are so many peaple... or i should say paramore fans inside~ xD

i wish there are more fans in Malaysia

impossible...

ok

i'm being lead by some worker there till i found my seat

wow~! it's so close to the stage!

there are another band perform be4 the paramore

they were great to and the guitarist was sooooooo cool~

playing some finger's skill like the female guitarist who play for micheal jackson

i'm a guitar player but i don't know much about music

how embarassing D:

the band finish performing~

i'm not so clear what they say

but after this all fans shouting " PARAMORE!"

mean while

a pretty girl sits beside me~

i'm not so interest at first but after i know she is seperated with hers friend and i started interest to help her~

everything goes well and they seems really thankful to me

i'm so happy with it wonder why~

mayb i would like to makes some friends? xD

all the light turned off~ and all the fans shout and shout~

the show gonna start!



this is the intro of the concert~

too bad i gave up continue record it~

i never thought my aunt's camera could record witha perfect quality

i thought i can download the video by others upload

i'm just don't wanna miss every moment of this concert

i should record it by myself

regret! 'cause the intro was sooo cool xD

i really so happy that the songs all they perform was my favorite songs but only the "the only exception"

i know not much about this song~ and the mv too~

haha~ i should study my english harder~xD

at first, i'm kinda scare i would block someone sight if i stand up

but till paramore performing the "careful" which is my favorite song

i ignore all the things near me~

i stand up and sing along with hayley, like others~ xD

the craziest moment for all of us i think is when they performing "misery business"

the crowded sound getting louder then usual obviously~

me too~ shout as loud as possible~

about "let the flames begin"

i thought they were playing a old style one 'cause they played the old intro

but after song

the music slowly getting excite

DOM DOM DOM DOM!!

it is the ending what they did in the final riot!

everyone looks shock and keep screaming for this

actually i don't know the lyrics

something like "oh father~~"

it's cool~ xD

what i disappoint is they didnt perform "playing god" and "turn it off"

both these songs use to be one of my favorite in the nem album.

the show last for onli an hour i think

it's not enough for me

i wish i could see hayley for a little while more

wonder when will they do another concert in malaysia or singapore.

i'm quite lazy to write anymore

the next day(today) i'm going back to my hometown-- kl

and now i'm finishing my blog~

it's time to say goodnight to everyone~

hey~ if anyone of you were apart of this concert~

leave a message at the chat box over there >>>

see ya!

I LOVE YOU PARAMORE! MY HEART BEATS FOR ONLY YOU!^^

演唱会

就要出发到新加坡了

想到很久都没有出国就怪兴奋的

虽然只是新加坡啦~ ><

很夜了

先歇一会

祝我一路顺风吧！

终于回家了！

我两个月的打工生涯终于圆满结束。

打工真的很累人

原本还打算做满三个月

才两个月就放弃了

年轻人就是这样

经不起劳动。

其实也不是很累

我很享受这份工作

不过就基于人事关系

所以才想辞工的。

在这两个月里我学到了不少东西

就像是：

基本服务态度

人与人之间的交谈方式

察言观色

双手捧三个盘

快速抹汤匙叉

切辣椒的功夫！xDD

还有很多很多

实在获益不前。

我最初打工的目的达到了

不过再看看自己

还是个黄毛小子 ~~

算了

该开始做点不一样的了

再继续往梦想前进吧！

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某日

我跟健到pavilion逛街

无意中被我发现了paramore要来新加坡开演唱会

知晓这消息后就开始一连串的行动

终于

我马上就要出发到新加坡看我的偶像啦！

原本我还打算自己一个人去

后来我阿姨不知怎么也说想去新加坡

结果就有个伴了

当然

我阿姨对paramore是不可能有兴趣的

演唱会是我自己一个人看

我阿姨应该是跟朋友一起吹吹水吧。

paramore!我来啦!! XDD

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提提我的朋友吧

最有被写作价值的当然是和我同床共枕了整个月的

哲先生！

打工期间大家都有转变

他当然也不例外

外表内涵

由内到外都变化无穷。

首先就是他的发型

修减了

也电直了

大家就开始议论纷纷

到底他是电了好看还是没电好看

见仁见智

至少他没了他最讨厌的“乱毛”

开心就好。

还有就是他终于恋爱了！

跟YY

刚开始的时候还真的没想过他真地会去追她。

最后就是他人慢慢变得开朗起来

乐观起来

他也好像开始享受工作的乐趣了

看到他的转变

身为他的朋友值得为他高兴。

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打工做最初的目的就是想要学会：

如何结交朋友

如何与人交谈

如何制造幽默的话题

如何给予他人话后的反应

还有：

服务

经验

金钱，

希望自己的思想能够成熟起来。

看到自己有稍微的改变是很高兴

可是好像怎样做都不足够

同事们都好像不喜欢我

其实打从第一天起

我就拼命改变自己

醒目点

勤劳点

友善点

但久而久之

累了

慢慢不想讲话

因为我觉得无论我怎么做都不能让他们喜欢我

越来越自卑

所以我才想辞工

不然我一定会做满三个月的。

可能是因为不够幽默

做事不够醒目

我会继续提升自己的。

YEAH!!!

哇！ 我知道我这么做 很不理智 很奢侈 可是当我看到它的当儿 除了把它占为己有就在也没有办法控制我的欲望了
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“Brand new eyes”by PARAMORE!!!
我买下来了！
真没想到leisure mall的speedy竟然会有货
xDDD
她们的专辑可是很难找的咧
si beh 开心~ ^O^
!!! FOREVER!!!
!!!SUPPORT!!!

趣事

打工
能有什么感想呢？
对我而言这份工做算不赖的了
加上铧也在这里打工
简直就是锦上添花。
不过我觉得我自己还太嫩
很多时候不够醒目
而且还不够沟通
要迈入社会还有一短距离啊。
可能这儿比较多年青人
所以这里的人事不算复杂
也好
学什么都不能操之过急
要按部就班
学会看人也应如此
除了赚钱
也当磨练
此工实在不赖啊。
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来说说今天打工的趣事吧~xD
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kit zai生日
今早
哲开了面子书浏览浏览
刚巧被我看到“kit zai today birthday”这个字眼
我问了问哲杰仔今天生日咩？
他点头道是。
当到了又一城
我忙着宣传杰仔今天生日
有几个人已经祝福他了
最后在yong jian和chiow er在大家面前唱生日歌时
有人问
“今天谁生日哦？”
后来得知不是杰仔的生日
那个kit zai是我学校的hong kit
真是丢脸丢到家了。
.....
那个waiter一直望着我
铧有个坏习惯
就是喜欢盯着一个地方发呆。
为什么说坏呢？
今天
铧在section C那里看管
突然盯着一个地方发起呆来。
就在他醒过来的时候
他发觉她盯着的那个位置有位女生望着他
傻佬了咯！
刚好隔壁桌有客人唤
铧就走了过去。
这时
被铧“不小心”盯着的女生轻轻地对她朋友说
“ei~刚刚那个waiter一直望着我咧。”
也是丢脸丢到家。
.....
michell生日
这次是真的生日了
很抱歉啊michell
我忘记你的生日了>< 拍谢拍谢。
她跟一大班朋友到又一城庆祝
真好
其实我也很想一大班朋友和我一块庆祝生日的咧~ xDDDD
有一次我serve她们那一班时
我跟michell开玩笑说怎么没我的份
怎么知道她真的就捧着一块蛋糕说是我的
哎哟~so suprise man！
我当时连生日快乐都没说呢
还能有个蛋糕吃
哎~~哟~~~~！
哪有生日的给不是生日的惊喜的？
哎哟！！！
受之有愧呐！
后来还给了我一个小蛋糕
说是吃不完的（那蛋糕可是原封未动的呢）
说给我和我的同事们一块吃的
我看他们都回觊觎那一块secret recipe的蛋糕多于那块的啦
所以我带了回来孝敬哲一家人。

小孩子气

今天发生了一件比较不愉快的事。

因为打工的关系

我必须更改我音乐课的上课时间。

由于昨晚哲夜夜不肯入眠

导致我今早不能早起到guitar store。（其实是懒惰起床）

结果呢

就打算在breaktime的时候去换咯。

breaktime了

去order staff meal

等啊等

怎么还没好呢？

然后三十分钟过去了

赶时间咧大佬！

然后我就一直催催催

然后就有个人摆脸色给我看

最讨厌我都还没有生气就摆脸色和骂人的人了。（就像我妈妈xP）

不理了

一股气冲到guitar store

搞定后就回去。

饭还是没来==

接下来还有一段故事

不说了。

老实说

我那样做很小孩子气

不过就是不爽人家摆脸色。

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今天

在还没上班的时候

fred来哲家。

说bert要去ns报到了

接着问我们打工打得怎样

哲跟我的答案大相径庭。

我觉得那里的工作人员都很好

以前我打的那两份工的员工都把我当小孩子看待

而在这里的就好像重返校园了一样

加上全部人都很好笑

还有这工作很中庸

不会太过于繁忙也不会太闲空

在这里打工基本是没有压力的（虽然我一天至少做错一件事-__-）

最重要是工钱可观度很高！$.$）

不过哲不是很享受

可能只 是我人比较奇怪？

哈！乐观种！xDDD